MEDITATION
Meditation is an excellent tool to use for lowering stress, depression, or to be better able to live in the moment. What is living in the moment? Well, it's being able to enjoy being alive--noticing life in the moment, rather than worrying or thinking about the past or future. Got it?
Meditating on a regular basis will help you to be able to handle the stresses of life in a much healthier and productive manner. In a sense you are able to think more clearly and not get "caught up" by minor events. Thus, no one can ruin your day!
Meditation can be useful for physical ailments as well. It can help to lower blood pressure and studies suggest it can boost the immune system.
There are several types of meditation techniques to choose from. There are guided meditation techniques usually designed to guide you to a serene enviornment. There are many CD's available in stores from which to choose.
Transcendental meditation is an excellent technique, but usually requires a fee to learn, as it is considered an old and sacred meditation. It is well worth the cost.
Breathing techniques used in meditation are very effective also. Here is one that is very simple and highly effective:
First, find a place where it is completely quiet (no music or tv) and dim or turn off the lights. Sit in a comfortable chair with both feet on the floor and your hands on your lap. Close your eyes.
Next, close your eyes and take 3-5 deep breaths to begin relaxing. Breath in (slowly) through your nose filling your lungs until they are full. Hold for 3 seconds and breath out through your mouth. When you release your breath through your mouth, make sure you empty your lungs completely. Repeat 2-4 more times until you feel some of the stress has left your body.
Now, breath normally in through your nose and out through your nose (yes nose). Focus all of your attention on your breathing. Feel the air go in through your nose, filling your lungs and the breath leaving your lungs. Feel the air in your nose....feel the temperature, etc..
If you feel your mind wander (it probably will) just notice the thought or noise, (if you are distracted by a noise) and bring your attention back to your breathing. Try not to get frustrated at yourself if your mind wanders. Simply bring your attention back to your breathing. After you have made this a practice, you will find that your mind will not wander as much. Your mind will become clear of the "clutter". I would do this for at least 20-30 minutes twice per day. Thirty minutes is best.
I encourage you to continue meditating for a happier healthier YOU!
~Sam
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
What's holding me back in love and life?
If you find yourself wondering why you aren't where you want to be in love and life, then it's time to evaluate what it is that isn't serving you anymore and let it go. If you're feeling "stuck", you are the only one who can turn things around for yourself.
You may be the one standing in your own way of having what you want! It takes work or movement to change--but those things are needed in order to move forward, attract love and have the life you desire.
Try to be happy in the moment and give thanks for what you have. Take a look at your expectations--are they realistic? Keep in mind that we cannot change someone else--we can only change ourselves. Love yourself first and be willing to let go of people and situations which do not serve you, so that you can attract something better. In so doing, you are telling the Universe that you are no longer willing to settle for less. Your attitude and behavior will change, thus a new you! Make a list of the qualities and characteristics of what you want to attract to you. Remember to be very clear and then let it go to manifest in your life, keeping in mind that you have a new attitude!
You may be the one standing in your own way of having what you want! It takes work or movement to change--but those things are needed in order to move forward, attract love and have the life you desire.
Try to be happy in the moment and give thanks for what you have. Take a look at your expectations--are they realistic? Keep in mind that we cannot change someone else--we can only change ourselves. Love yourself first and be willing to let go of people and situations which do not serve you, so that you can attract something better. In so doing, you are telling the Universe that you are no longer willing to settle for less. Your attitude and behavior will change, thus a new you! Make a list of the qualities and characteristics of what you want to attract to you. Remember to be very clear and then let it go to manifest in your life, keeping in mind that you have a new attitude!
Sunday, January 24, 2010
Asberger's Syndrome Symptoms
A child or Adolescent Diagnosed with Asberger's Syndrome would present with impairment in social interaction. Some of the more common impairments is in the use of non-verbal behaviors such eye-to-eye contact, body postures, and gestures to regulate interaction with others. Failure or difficulty in developing peer relationships, a lack of reciprocity on an emotional or social level.
The child would present with repetitive, restricted, and stereotyped patterns of behavior, activities, and interests. The preoccupation would be abnormal in focus or intensity, may be inflexible to specific routines or rituals, or may display repetitive hand or whole-body movements. The child may have an ongoing preoccupation with parts of objects.
The child does not have to display all of the above to be diagnosed with Asberger's Syndrome. It is beneficial for the child to have social skills training or education in a group setting. Seek the help of a Medical Doctor / Psychiatrist who would be best to diagnose such a disorder.
I would recommend searching for a social skills group for your child. Also, there are many workbooks you can purchase to help teach your child appropriate social skills. In some cases, searching for a psychotherapist may be needed for individual treatment.
The child would present with repetitive, restricted, and stereotyped patterns of behavior, activities, and interests. The preoccupation would be abnormal in focus or intensity, may be inflexible to specific routines or rituals, or may display repetitive hand or whole-body movements. The child may have an ongoing preoccupation with parts of objects.
The child does not have to display all of the above to be diagnosed with Asberger's Syndrome. It is beneficial for the child to have social skills training or education in a group setting. Seek the help of a Medical Doctor / Psychiatrist who would be best to diagnose such a disorder.
I would recommend searching for a social skills group for your child. Also, there are many workbooks you can purchase to help teach your child appropriate social skills. In some cases, searching for a psychotherapist may be needed for individual treatment.
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